DEAR WOMEN : SEX DOESN'T ALWAYS PROVE LOVE

BY  BERENDE HASSAN BOLA

Don't be fooled by Men who persist and insist,  pressuring you to make love with them to prove that you genuinely love them. 

The fact is that most young men's blood boils for SEX almost every time,  just like people yearn so much for food, to satiate their Hunger while hungry.

SEX for men can be said to be like food: when people are starving, they aren't choosy, they eat whatever food that might come their way,  it doesn't matter to them whether it's their favorite food or not, all they are after is to quench their Hunger. They will eat whatever food that comes their way to satiate their Hunger. The same is with their  Sex Life, It doesn't even matter to them whether they truly love you or not,  as far as you are a species of their own Opposite Sex who can Satisfy Their sexual desires, then all is well for them.

But it is not always so with those of them(men) with Self-discipline and Self-restraint, those who hold back and refrain from  Eating Haram  (illegal)  Food ( love making ). 

So be wise my Sister, if you denied him  SEX  and He serves you with hot breakfast  (break up), just know  He doesn't love you for loving sake,   but for Your Body of which you've just denied Him.

Don't feel sad about how the relationship Ended,  just be thankful to God for saving you from ending up with someone who doesn't truly love you.